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Lessons In Love

TCS vs Level 42 – Lessons in Love 2010 (Sidechain Remix)


I’m not proud, I was wrong
and the truth is hard to take
I felt sure we had enough
but our love went overboard
lifeboat lies lost at sea
I’ve been trying to reach your shore
waves of doubt keep drowning me

All the dreams that we were building
we never fulfilled them
could be better, should be better
for lessons in love

For restless eyes egos burn
and the mold is hard to break
now we’ve waded in too deep
and love is overboard
heavy hearts token words
all the hopes I ever had
fade like footprints in the sand

All the homes that we were building
we never lived in
could be better, should be better
lessons in love
if we lose the time before us
the future will ignore us
we should use it, we could use it, yeah
lessons in love
lost without love

Lessons in love
when will you ever learn
lessons in love
when there’s nowhere left to turn
lessons in love
don’t let your spirit burn
lessons in love
I’ll wait ’till you return

All the dreams that we were building
we never lived them
we could lose it, we should use it
(lessons in love) lessons in love
all the homes that we were building
we never lived in
could be better (could be better), should be better
lessons in love
if we lose the time before us
the future will ignore us
we should use it, we could use it (good god)
lessons in love

Just A Dream

Nelly – Just A Dream

Lyrics :

I was thinkin about her, thinkin about me.
Thinkin about us, what we gonna be?
Open my eyes, yeah; it was only just a dream.
So I travel back, down that road.
Who she come back? No one knows.
I realize, yeah, it was only just a dream.

I was at the top and I was like I’m at the basement.
Number one spot and now she found her a replacement.
I swear now I can’t take it, knowing somebody’s got my baby. Continue reading ‘Just A Dream’ »

How to Reduce and Manage Stress

  1. The most obvious way to reduce the stressors in your life is to really take a look at your current lifestyle. Are you eating healthy and nutritiously and living a well-balanced lifestyle that includes regular active exercising and physical activity? Try to eliminate caffeine in your diet; it is a stimulant that can increase anxiety and stress on your body. Also eliminate nicotine and alcohol if possible, or at least keep consumption to a minimum. It is about living in harmony with both your internal and external environments.
  2. Learning relaxation techniques will help you to reduce and cope with anxiety and stress. Visualization and breathing techniques are easy and fast to learn and to incorporate into your daily routine. They can be done anywhere, at home or in your office at your desk. Use nature in your surroundings by decorating your home or office with lots of plants or objects from nature. Using music or nature sounds such as water or bird recordings will help to create a soothing surrounding that can help reduce stress and anxiety.
  3. Learning the technique of meditation will help you to calm your inner being and your mind, and will actually give your brain a “mental vacation” and enable you to find some rest and peace. Most of the time we live such rapid and hectic lives and we place such enormous mental stress on our bodies and minds that we find ourselves overworked and our brains conditioned to being overactive; we literally don’t know how to rest our minds and find any inner peace. Meditation will help you regain control of your “peace of mind,” and this in turn will help you to reduce your stress levels, think more clearly, function more efficiently and be happier.
  4. Learn to communicate and talk about your problems. Family, friends and professional healthcare givers are a good support network to help you handle your anxiety and stress. There are many online sites that will help you handle stress and online groups that you can join in order to chat with others who are experiencing stress and anxiety.
  5. Learn to change your thought and conditioned behaviors. Eliminate negativity in your life and try to become more positive and open to the options available for handling your stress.
  6. Money is often a major source of stress in peoples’ lives. Learn ways to handle your finances so you are able to cope with any situations that might occur. Learn to save on a monthly basis and have enough for at least a three month-reserve. Keep a budget and don’t overspend.

Subject of present times!

Lady Gaga -  Alejandro !

How many things I can say about the subject of this play!! Lots and lots and lots of comments!
And who else could better talk about it if not one of the most bold and unconventional artist of this time…?
Great lyrics! But also great video for this play !

Ok, if this song would have been of another new artist, probably wouldn’t break any bilboard chart. But the name of Lady Gaga made it a HIT !

And I loooove the way they are dressed in this video!

Here some comments about the new release of Lady Gaga – Alejandro:

Looking a bit NOT Gaga-style
“Alejandro” is controversial and polarizing–no Gaga video would be complete without a little shock value–but by Gaga standards, this video is actually almost downright tame, and this time, she isn’t dancing with cans of Miracle Whip or disco sticks or hats fashioned out of princess phones. This time, there seems to be a message behind Gaga’s madness. Will people listen to what she has to say? Regardless, this is yet another Lady Gaga video that will be impossible to ignore. – Yahoo! Music

Looking a bit Madonna-style
There are a number of other cultural references that slip out of “Alejandro” (Gaga clearly enjoys the work of film director Fritz Lang), but even the gun-barrel-sporting bra she wears at the end could be mistaken for that conical top Madonna made famous during the Blonde Ambition Tour. Of course, “Alejandro” director Steven Klein has worked as a photographer for Madonna over the past few years, so it’s quite possible that these are merely the influences he has picked up while working with her. But if Gaga really is making an attempt to define herself as a next-gen Madonna who also pays homage to her elders, then there are worse paths to follow.
–  MTV

What is Lady Gaga saying about it?
The video is a “celebration and an admiration of gay love — it confesses my envy of the courage and bravery they require to be together.”
… Hm…!

What is the second (maybe main) message ?
We are living modern times , when people use people, love is not a reason to dedicate your life or yourself to somebody else, everybody is replaceable and nobody owns anything to anybody in love … just like in business :) .
So, just enjoy the present time together. You are NOW important, tomorrow you have to understand you ‘re maybe not … :)
So, don’t call my name! I am not your Babe. Take care of yourself and leave me alone. Like in war, like in the army: shut up and bare ! :)

Here are the lyrics for Lady Gaga – Alejandro:

I know that we are young,
And I know that you may love me,
But I just can’t be with you like this anymore,
Alejandro

She’s got both hands
In her pocket Continue reading ‘Subject of present times!’ »

The Truth About Women :))

Just navigating the Internet through some nice pictures, I got to this:

Trying to find out WHO wrote it, but I did not find it (!)… and I got to this (!!!!):


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THE TRUTH ABOUT WOMEN – or maybe confessions of a GIGOLO (I think)

by Unknown

I wasn’t a sexist before I understood women. There was a time when I was blissfully ignorant.

I grew up watching Disney cartoons, I believed in romance and “true love conquers all” etc. I wanted to find a woman who could be my equal, my partner. I believed in finding that one true love and being committed to each other forever. You know, like in the marriage vows, “for better or for worse, through sickness and in health, for richer or for poorer” etc. And I believed that women basically wanted the same thing. Now I understand that this was only possible when society was structured to enforce it. Now that women are “liberated” (and thus at the mercy of their own emotions and baser instincts) this is mostly no longer possible in today’s society. Victorian society, or many Arab societies, are examples of how society used to be structured to keep women as faithful as possible.

I’d like to point out that I am not a misogynist…I love women. But I AM a sexist, in the sense that I believe women are vastly different than men and, according to the standards that men hold for other men, women are inferior as well.

I must be a bitter loser, right? In fact, I enjoy more success with women than most of the men in this city. I have slept with over 200 women in my life. I am sleeping with 5 different women right now. They are all normal, healthy, well-adjusted, good-looking (8+ on the looks scale) professional women. (At least as normal and healthy and well-adjusted as women can be – most women have issues.) But that’s not all. I can go out any night of the week and pick up a woman. I can pick her up in front of all her friends (with 80% efficiency for each approach.) Women will slip me their phone number when their boyfriend is in the bathroom. I can talk to women on the street or in the grocery store and within 30 minutes, I can usually have sex with them right there in my car or get them back to my place. If I have to settle for a phone number, and I meet her on another day, assuming she doesn’t flake, I WILL fuck her that next day.

Let me point out right now that my Modus Operandi doesn’t change in the slightest if she single or if she has a boyfriend or husband. I just do my normal routine and I fuck her. Sometimes she brings up the boyfriend so she won’t feel guilty when I fuck her because now it’s “my fault.” Sometimes she hides it from me until after I’ve fucked her, then she admits it. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been laying next to some chick, all sweaty cause I just finished busting a nut all over her face or in her mouth or on her back, and suddenly her phone rings and she’s on the phone with her man, giving him some bullshit story. This is with NO GUILT WHATSOEVER!!! The sweetest most innocent girls you ever laid eyes on, will cheat at the drop of a HAT. The one thing that most men value most – loyalty – is just not there with women. Women don’t think in terms of honor, women don’t say “word is bond;” women are basically emotionally driven. If they feel it, they do it, period. Then they rationalize it to themselves later. Nothing is more meaningful, or compelling, to a woman than (1) the way she feels and (2) learning more about her own inner self and having emotional realizations. That’s why women love astrology, chick flicks, soap operas, stupid Cosmo quizes that supposedly reveal info about yourself, etc.

I must be really good looking, right? NOPE. My looks are marginal; I’m maybe a 7. I don’t work out (though I’m not fat or anything.) In fact I didn’t have any success with women until I was in my early 20′s. That’s when I decided to go out a lot and start trying to get laid… I was willing to face rejection a thousand times a night, and do it over and over, trying everything, until I got it right. I had to completely set my ego aside. I didn’t get laid at all for the first few months. Then every now and then. Then pretty often. Then downright consistently! I’m in my early 30′s now and I am basically a sexual god. I wouldn’t have even believed this were possible when I was in high school. The ONLY factor that determined whether a woman would cheat was my own skill level. When my skills were poor, women shit all over me. (Everyone knows how women think they have license to be rude bitches in social situations… in fact I understand and appreciate that behavior now.) But once my skills got good, I could fuck just about anyone’s wife or girlfriend. And many times I didn’t know they had a man until after I fucked them.

Look, I’m not saying that men are perfect, or whatever. Far from it. I’m just saying, I’ve spent a lot of my time studying women and interacting with them, and I know how they are. In fact, sometimes I hate knowing it. Sometimes I wish I had taken the blue pill, and never went down the rabbit hole, because now there’s really no going back. I didn’t want to believe these things… but how could I ever get married now? How could I ever be the chump who pays for everything and blissfully goes through life not worrying about his woman because he trusts her? Look, would you leave your dog alone with a steak? You can’t hate the dog for doing what’s in its nature. You can’t trust a dog, BUT you can trust a dog to BE a dog. Some men are disloyal… but I could *never* trust a woman to be loyal. Some men are bad presidents…but I could *never* vote for a woman to be president. I can rarely expect a woman to regard her own promises as more important and compelling to her than the emotions she feels in the moment. She will rationalize it to herself later.

Here’s an interesting fact. Did you know that the median 22 year old woman has TWICE as much sex as the median 22 year old man? You might ask, how is that possible? If a woman’s having sex, doesn’t that mean a man is having sex at the same time? And thus, shouldn’t men be having just as much sex as women? NO…because most men hardly get laid, or if they do, it’s because they “got lucky.” But a small group of men get laid ALL THE TIME, and fuck LOTS AND LOTS of women! It’s evolution at work. Women follow their emotions, and that leads them to sleep with men like me (who know how to control female emotions.) Women want the top man…so the top man fucks lots of women. That’s right – the sexual revolution, feminism, etc has resulted in a return to harems. Women, at the mercy of their own emotions, are volunteering for the modern-day equivalent of harems. Lucky for me!! Heh.

You might say, “But…but…I’m so nice! I’m a nice guy!” Guess what? That’s like a fat chick saying, “But I’m so smart!” As if those things have anything in the world to do with sexual attraction!

I’m going to give some tips here for the poor sucker guys who are posting online trying to get laid and who are spending hundreds / thousands of dollars on all those whores out there without getting any play. (You bitches know exactly what you’re doing, and I’m on to your game!)

* Don’t be sexually judgemental in any way. A woman’s worst fear is to be perceived as a slut. She will suck your toes and take it in the ass if she thinks you don’t view her poorly for it (and she knows her friends won’t find out.)

* Don’t get angry at her. Women know they have emotional outbursts and they need to trust that you can handle that. It’s ok (and necessary) to occasionally put your foot down…just make sure she knows you are fully in control of yourself.

* Don’t let her manipulate you or control you in any way. She will immediately lose all respect for you. Always be leading. It’s just like dancing – women hate a man who can’t lead.

* When first approaching a woman or a group, they tend to get a feeling like this is just your little scheme to get close to them, when you really just want something from them – like sex. (And they’re right.) It’s important to structure your body language and conversation so that they honestly don’t believe you want something from them. They should feel like you are about to leave at any second.

* DON’T TRY TO IMPRESS HER IN ANY WAY. Don’t show off. Don’t talk about accomplishments or possessions. As soon as she perceives that you are trying to prove yourself to her, she loses all interest.

* Don’t ignore her friends. A woman values her friend’s opinions more than just about anything else in the world. Nothing matters to her more than what other women are thinking. Give her friends lots of attention and get everyone laughing. If one woman is feeling different than the others, she will drag them away. They will follow like a flock of pigeons. Society is the book of women. (Notice that men do NOT behave this way! Women are very different!)

* To get a woman attracted / emotionally vulnerable, give her lots of emotions and feelings. Don’t just make her feel good. Make her feel good, and angry, and sad, and connected, and astonished, and intrigued, etc. Make her laugh. Tease her. Tell stories about your sick puppy. Tell her why things would never work out between the two of you. Call her a dork. If she gets heated up, she will start touching you…playfully push her away. If she calls you a jerk and punches your arm, you are doing it right. If she gives you that “I can’t believe you just said that” look, do NOT back down, do not say “Oh I’m just kidding” or anything like that.

* As she gets more emotional, she will try to ruin things by throwing in logic. She will ask you if you are a player, or if you say this to all the girls, or whatever. The trick is this: Don’t take it seriously by giving it some logical answer! That’s right…women lose interest if you take them seriously!!! It’s crazy but that’s how they behave. Just blow it off or misinterpret what she’s saying as though she is coming on to you. If you fail these tests, she will be gone so fast your head will spin.

* She will start asking you lots of questions. This is what chicks do when they suddenly find themselves attracted to a man they know nothing about. This is your chance to open up a little and also find out more about her and build a deeper connection. You have to do this, or she will flake later (even if you’ve kissed her!) Women are the worst flakes in the world! Don’t make it too easy for her, make her work for it a bit. Then talk about connections and childhood memories and things you have in common, etc. She needs to feel that this is genuine. This is usually the time when I throw in a few fake vulnerabilities, like pretending I’m shy or insecure about something. I know it’s fucked up but women need to see that there are at least a few small holes where they can sink their hooks in you. They get uneasy if you are too perfect.

* Make sure she gets the feeling that you have standards and that you are judging her based on them. Ask her questions that show her you are checking her out to see if she is up to snuff. Women don’t like to feel like you are with them only because you can’t do any better. They prefer to feel like you have high standards; you can get any chick you want, but you chose HER because she is SOOOO special and SOOOO different from all the others. Yeah, I know.

* Move her to different locations. Take her next door for a drink. Take her across the street to check out some art. The more locations the better.

* Take responsibility for every escalation. A woman will do just about anything as long as she doesn’t have to feel like it was “her fault.” Make it YOUR fault. Make it “just happen.” She will rationalize it to herself later using the same bullshit generator that women use to flake out on dates at the last minute. Don’t get her horny until you get her isolated. Believe me, emotional is better than horny.

* Keep the woman always swinging somewhere between validation and rejection. If she feels rejected, she drops out or gets REALLY MAD. And if she feels too validated, she will ditch you in a heartbeat. So push her away (emotionally) and then pull her back in.

* BELIEVE YOUR OWN BULLSHIT. Chicks do not look at your excuses and try to see if they are bullshit or not… because that is the logical thing to do, and chicks are not logical. Rather, what they do is see if YOU seem to believe your own bullshit when you say it. If you look like you do, then chances are, they will believe it too. So the key is to believe your own bullshit, and other aspects about yourself that you want the chick to believe about you too (alpha male..whatever)… because your own self beliefs for some reason will automatically ‘impart’ to the chick!

* One more thing…many guys make the mistake of listening to female romantic advice. Don’t listen to them, THEY DON’T KNOW WTF THEY ARE TALKING ABOUT, and they WILL steer you wrong. They will tell you what they THINK they want, instead of what they actually RESPOND to. And furthermore, a large part of the female sexual experience IS the inability to admit these things BECAUSE they derive sexual pleasure from putting up resistance and being overwhelmed.

If you do things this way, after a few months practice you WILL get laid like a rock star. The guys who get laid are the ones who know what they are doing, because they have practiced on lots of women. Ironically, women are most attracted to the men who are most likely to fuck them and then dump them on their ass – because those are precisely the men who have so many other options because they practice on lots of women. That’s why you always hear women bitching about how men are assholes that only want to fuck them and dump them – because those are the men that they gravitate to.

Women tend to wise up when they get towards their 30s, and they start looking for a nice wimpy beta male to settle down with and pay for all their shit. As they get older, they will get more and more desperate to find this guy. Once they do, they will cheat on him with an exciting fun guy like me. (But who wants to fuck some old chick in her 30′s? That’s what beta males are for! Heh)

Hey, don’t blame me – I didn’t make things the way they are. I was just a guy who wanted to get laid. And I do :-)

Unknown

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Yes, I’ve read it and I could not helped laughing at it! :)
I hope he’s talking about MOST OF WOMEN , NOT EVERY WOMAN !! ;)

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I am still HERE !

For me life is continuously being hungry. The meaning of life is not simply to exist, to survive, but to move ahead, to go up, to achieve, to conquer.

words by Arnold Schwarzenegger

Happy Birthday to me!

Copyright on the picture to ME, May 24 2010.

Go Pro! Be a Hero!

Eeeeee-e-e-e-e-nergy Boooo-o-o-o-o-o-o-st !!!


Camera for sports ! Exactly what I am now looking for!
I love this gadget ! Go Pro HD! I take 2!
And I love what these guys are doing here!

I get tired! Today I am EMO :(

EMO -  it is a style of rock music, typically characterized by melodic musicianship and expressive, often confessional lyrics. It originated in the mid-1980s hardcore punk movement in Washington, where it was known as “emotional hardcore” or “emocore”.

Today, EMO is a subculture, a Fashion (dressing, hairstyle, attitude).
Usually these teens are wearing skinny jeans, sometimes in bright colors, and tight t-shirts (usually short-sleeved) which often bear the names of emo bands. Studded belts and black wristbands are common accessories in emo fashion. Black Converse sneakers and skate shoes, such as Vans, are popularly worn among people of the emo fashion. Some males also wear thick, black horn-rimmed glasses.
Popular hairstyles include long side-swept bangs, sometimes covering one or both eyes. Also popular is hair that is straightened and dyed black. Bright colors, such as blue, pink, red, or bleached blond, are also typical as highlights in emo hairstyles. Short, choppy layers of hair are also common.
Emo has been associated with a stereotype that includes being particularly emotional, sensitive, shy, introverted, or angst-ridden.
It has also been associated with depression, self-injury, and suicide. Oh, no! Not me!

Still, I feel like I’m EMO today!

So,

Paramore – The Only Exception

Lyrics here: Continue reading ‘I get tired! Today I am EMO :( ’ »

Happy Man’s Day !

Today, May 5th, Romania is celebrating Man’s Day. Of course, no woman is taking it seriously in any way, maybe because man is not so important when is to celebrate something about him! :) )

I was thinking all the morning what was the perfect song for a man’s day.

Nothing else, but this:

Frank Sinatra – My Way

Happy Man’s Day, Man!
That is for you and me! :)

Lyrics here: Continue reading ‘Happy Man’s Day !’ »

“People are selfish !” – interview with Dan Geagan :))

Dan Geagan is a great person, 34 years old, successful business man, impressive leader, good cook, crazy sports man, agile hunter, genius communicative partner, the honey and the milk of perfect life, very creative freak, the writer of the soul, singer+dancer+acrobat+pianist, smooth criminal, lucky bastard, courageous fighter, extreme survivor, the fire starter, the skier and the biker, the no-smoke/no-weed/no-alcohol protestant, THE ONE AND ONLY, the looking-like-one-and-acting-like-ten, the “searching-for-exquisite” explorer, the “one woman man”, morning kisser and night story teller, par-r-r-r-r-r-r-r-r-r-r-r-r-r-r-r-ty anima-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-a-al, sooooooo attractive male, great lover, ever dreamer, international hero, universal and irreplaceable, the Chinese and the Alien, a bitch-for-you-who-smiles-like-that-to-this-post , etc etc etc … and only just a man! Still living …! Since 1975 ! :P

But… Dan Geagan is a troubled man. He is troubled by the attitudes of his human kinds.

“They don’t have the drive that I have when I ‘m in something like they are now,” he thinks. “They aren’t willing to sacrifice for a cause, a company or a person like I do.” Dan doesn’t understand why people aren’t dedicated to the future of their world. No, he does not understand, ntz ntz ntz … And he is troubled !

Dan has forgotten a simple fact. People are not living to make others live better. They are living for themselves. They are working for their own self-interests, goals and dreams.

Dan, in pursuing his dream, has lost sight of a simple truth — People are selfish.

The core message is this: If you strive to live like a better human, you must recognize that the key to your success is matching others self-interests with yours.